If you feel no shame, then do as you wish
17:39
In the name of Allah , the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful.
Assalamualaikum to all,
Alhamdulillah for the past few days, i have been finishing what i've intended to do but sadly i received a sad news that one of my friend who was a part of being my guide will be off to work and her placement is still undecided. Well, why im sad? She might work far away and im still learning to know her and making my deen stronger! im so hoping that she wont be getting places far away from me! inshaAllah!
Ok, that's a little about me there :D
Well, today's entry has something to do with the title above!
"If you feel no shame, then do as you wish" Prophet Muhammad SAW
That is really a direct statement subahanAllah! this got me for good and i thought back to what my close friend had told me once that shyness is part of a human's modesty and when you don't have that, nauzubillah! let's make du'a that we never will come close to that!
There is a reason i picked this quote sisters and brothers! recently i came across an incident. One of my non Muslim friend, Sahana (not real name) has asked me a question.
Sahana: Sister, i'm actually in a dillema! why do Islam has so many haram and halal in everything they do in their live? why is it so complicated? and dont they get confuse?
Me: The reason there is haram and halal is like having to differentiate between good things or bad things.For instance, Islam prohibits alcohol is because scientifically, its not healthy and in the long run there are so many effects. You may say that alcohol consumed in a less amount wont make any difference but Islam prohibits from the root itself.
Sahana: it is true sister! eliminating from the root itself! but then sister, why my Muslim friend who doesnt want to drink from my water bottle even though i'm vegetarian and she still says its haram, would rather have her boyfriend back home with her? Isn't that haram too?
Me: ......(speechless)So sisters and brothers, any answer for my friends question? its a shame when your Muslim fellows talk about haram and halal but in return, they don't follow it.
A humble request to my sisters and brothers out there, please please please don't just follow without knowing the reason for doing something. Do make an effort to learn Islam and what it truly is because mashaAllah it's a wonderful religion! you can have so much of facts learning what Islam is. We do have our own flaw, but don't continue doing it. Repent!
Do not commit zina. if man knew what was his limit, he would be the perfect servant of Allah SWT. Shaaitan doesn't only be around us but its within our own nafs. Today we see many people throwing of their babies which results from before marriage sexual conduct. it looks like we went back to the jahilliyah times except this time, we don't kill the baby girls but the baby boys too! love is wonderful but wait for the right one. when you've already have the right one, make du'a so that Allah SWT will bless the relationship with a marriage but at the same time, don't loose yourself. Things can wait. If he/she is meant to be with you, he/she will wait. always put Allah SWT first and ask for His guidance. There is no tawakal if you don't to change things.
Love you all for the sake of Allah SWT :D
Waalaikummusalam warahmatullah ~
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